It's not my job to take care of you. If you call yourself a grown man, then it's time to act like one. Or are you only grown when it comes to sex?
I shouldn't have to feed you, finance you and f*ck you, especially if you aren't willing or able to do the same in return.
Why are you coming to me for an allowance as though I am your Mother? You aren't my son! You're a man!
Why can't I depend on you?
Aren't you a MAN? Take care of yourself. Stand on your own two.
Show me that you are deserving and capable of leading a household or building something with me. Can you give and receive? Where is the balance brother? What happened to our mighty men? Otherwise you have no value.
How can you call yourself a man when you are steady taking from women? Don't take from me. Women like me, Black Women, Queens…we running out of things to give Sir!
Fill us up as a collective as a whole.
Stop looking for a woman to float you, raise you, help you, take care of you. You ain't my son. I don't want a man I have to take care of. Go back to your Mother for that sh*t.
GROW UP! You aren't my son. Stop looking for women to take care of you.
A Word From The Spiritual Love Coach
A relationship is supposed to be give and take. If you are always giving without reciprocation you will feel used, unfulfilled, stressed, and resentment.
Relationships that are out of balanced will not last long.
No one wants to take care of another person, especially when they aren't being taken care of. If you aren't in a serious relationship or marriage it's not your job to finance, raise, or provide for them.
If you aren't able to stand on your own two or treat your partner equally, then don't enter the relationship.
Stop giving all of you to someone who can't give you anything. That goes for mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and financially.