Today I was led to do NOTHING! Often we busy ourselves with mundane tasks and those urgent things that must be done. For the first time I put my planner away and didn't worry about my schedule or to do list and it felt great. I realized that sometimes we are too busy to see the signs all around us.
When it comes to relationships I see so many women busy trying to keep a man, they forget how to be themselves. Women doing the most for someone doing the bare minimum if that for them.
“Nothingness – The ability to do nothing therefore inducing a state of calm and inner peace.”
I started thinking about relationships how we can give and do so much and not get anything in return. So what if you do nothing, would anything change?
If you are pouring your all into a relationship and aren't feeling valued or it's causing you stress, try doing nothing. So often I see women forcing things in their relationships or feeling they have to do it so no one else will. I know because I've been there before. Once I started learning about energy and applying that to relationships, so much changed for me.
When I stopped giving so much, I could reflect clearly on things. If you are caught in the midst of action it will be hard to see what is going on around you. You're too busy trying to think things through and understand why your actions aren't getting you anywhere. Stop. Watch. Review. Reflect.
Relationships are give and take. They should be balanced or reciprocal. If it's not that's a huge Red Flag!
The answer is usually right there, it's just hard to see when you are so busy. Nothingness isn't about being rude, vengeful, or lazy. It's about being mindful and being present with yourself. It's a place where you gain clarity and peace, but a lot of people are uncomfortable there. It allows you the freedom to be real and honest about things.
During that time of Nothingness, you will be able to reconnect with yourself. The business of being busy, has your head clouded. Cyberstalking, drivebys, and phone hacking will not bring you the clarity that nothingness will.
If you are feeling confused, drained, disrespected, or tired give nothingness a try. Pour your time and energy back into yourself. If you're afraid to pull back from your relationship ask yourself why.
Unplug from your relationship, take a day off, silence your phone, turn off the tv and just be. Let yourself come back to you and do absolutely nothing. Then write. Pull out a few sheets of paper and empty your mind and thoughts. You'll be surprised what you discover when you aren't giving your energy to everyone else.
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