When you are whole and happy as an individual, that opens you up to give and receive love. Commit to yourself and bring life and love into your relationships.
We are so many things in life. Parents, aunts/uncles, sisters/brothers, coworkers, friends, and more. There are so many people that we come in contact with and have relationships with. The one person you are always with is yourself. That is your most important relationship.
Your soul is the essence of you and having that relationship with yourself will align you spiritually. I say that because we are made in HIS image! You are a divine creation of GOD. To know you is to know him. That's why your relationship with yourself is your single most important relationship.
There are 4 areas of life that you need to focus on: Mental/Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, and Financial.
Before you can be successful in an intimate relationship you have to be in alignment with yourself. All of you! In a partnership it is possible to use Positive Forward Movement. Relationships don't have to difficult! In order for it to work both parties need to be on the same page. You have to grow individually as well as together, as a team. Otherwise, you can grow apart. Set goals as a couple. Discuss these four areas of your lives together. When issues arise n your relationship face them together.
How can you commit to someone else in a relationship, if you aren't committing to yourself? Don't feel lonely or less than if you are single. It is not a relationship with someone else that makes you, but the one you have with yourself. When you are healthy, happy, and balanced in your own life that breathes life and love into your relationships with others.