Somehow you have forgotten how to connect with yourself. Being single is seen as the mark of shame and the feeling of loneliness is taking over.
It’s Okay to Be Single
Being alone doesn’t mean that you have to be lonely. When you are single, you are never alone. You have yourself! This is a great time to explore your hobbies and interests. Learn something new. Spend time with family and friends. Clean up your credit or your home. There are so many things to do that should occupy your mind and time.
Lonely is a Just Feeling
Loneliness comes in when you aren’t being present. You’re focused on the past and the relationship you used to have or you’re thinking about the relationship you want in the future. There’s a longing for someone special to be in your life. I get it!!
No one wants to spend their life alone. I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, but you can’t live your life in waiting. See being single as a blessing. This is your chance to elevate yourself. Focus on your heartset and decide the type of relationships you want overall.
Pour on the Love
Make self care a priority and get to know who you are on a deep, soul level. When you have that connection and knowledge with yourself all of your relationships will improve. You will be able to attract better people into your life. Being alone, doesn’t have to make you feel lonely.
Lonely is a feeling, don’t make it a way of thinking.
It’s all about perspective and how you are viewing things. Of course there will be times when you feel lonely, but it shouldn’t be persistent or frequent. Loneliness can lead you to make poor relationship choices. Embrace being alone for a change, especially if you been in relationships without taking a break.
I have been single for a while now, but before that I was in a relationship that truly made me feel lonely. If you’re in a relationship and feel alone that’s a huge red flag!
It’s better to be alone than in a unfulfilling relationship. I used my alone time to grow and develop myself. I made a lot of changes in my life that positioned me to be where I am today.
Currently I am single by choice and absolutely enjoying it. However soon I’ll be ready to start meeting new people. Are you uncomfortable in being single?
There are resources and support to help you Glow Up in love and life in the Illumination and Inspiration messages that I send out weekly.