Being broken in a relationship isn't healthy for your or them. It's important to heal before getting into another relationship. In life things happen. You may get hurt in someway that devastates you, but you don’t stay there!
Take the time to heal, learn, and grow from loves challenges so that you can love again.
Can you love a broken person?
“You can love someone who is broken but they won’t be able to give back (return love) until they heal themselves. Love isn’t about fixing a broken person. Each person must be whole within themselves or doing the work on themselves for them to grow in love and life together otherwise whatever caused them to be broken, those issues will continue to play out in your relationship”.
We all go through something that changes us. That is life. We are here to experience and learn, however we weren’t put here to stay in a state of brokenness.
Life is supposed to be full. If something happens to break you and you never try to overcome that or heal, what kind of life are you living?
Healing, learning, and growing are important, so that you can heal before going into a new situation.
Hurt people hurt people. That cycle only stops when healing begins.
Why people are so quick to get a friend with benefits, because they are hurting and instead of doing the work solo, they will satisfy themselves physically to get the connection. What do you think?