I have been learning so much about love, most importantly Spiritual Love. Love is energy and has its own resonance or frequency. In working with clients, exploring my own relationships and living this work I’ve come to realize that we are not in tune to the energy of love. That goes for most of us. Love is not our default and that is a problem.
If we are not attuned to the frequency of love, chances are we are aligned with fear, hatred, lack, and limits and this shows up in your life and relationships. How do I know because I’ve experienced it too.
Living in Fear, Not Love
I lived in a place of fear for a long time, after being in an abusive relationship. This doesn’t always show up clearly. It can show up as overextending yourself, addictions to food, sex, video games, drugs, shopping, eating, working out. The list goes on and on. You might find yourself unable and uninterested in investing in meaningful relationships. You might attract relationships that don’t serve you. People only looking to use you without reciprocating. Hurt will be a common theme because the love is not flowing in your life.
It took me way too long to figure out that I was not living and that the walls I set up to protect me were actually harming me and pulling the wrong energy into my life. The more I identified as a victim, the more I allowed the pain of what I experienced to live in my heart the further I got away from love.
Transform Pain into Love
I had a “come to Jesus moment” that opened my eyes and lead me to the transformation where I emerged healed, changed, and open. The things that I learned are what I now guide others through. It was in realizing that my life, my pain, and my story was my power. There was a message and a lesson in all of it.
What I learned is that if you are not aligned with the energy of love, you will miss out on the beauty of life and all that it has to offer. If you are not aligned with the energy of love you will experience challenges with love, relationships, and life in general. It is easy to think that you are loving, but believe me, being truly aligned with the energy of love is work.
Aligning with Spiritual Love
I am being called to align myself more and more and to step fully into my heart-space and it is a challenge. My personal work is to integrate Spiritual Love into all areas of my life, and to do that I have to be in a supportive space and be completely aware of myself at all times. I am grateful that I have amazing teachers and accountability partners to help me as I walk this path and I want to share this walk with you.
When you align yourself to the energy of love you are able to forgive, you have compassion for yourself and others, you give and receive love freely without fear paralyzing you. Judgment is no longer an issue because you are able to see the connection in all and again express compassion towards others. Aligning with the energy of love for me is deeper than just manifesting love, but that is indeed a beautiful benefit.
Releasing fear and opening your heart allows love to come in. The more you are aligned with the pure energy of love, free from guilt, shame, pain and fear you radiate and attract others to your light. This is not to say that you won’t have fear or negative emotions, you are human and that is what we experience but those things will not stop you. You can witness these emotions and meet them with love, still moving forward.
It is possible for you to align with the energy of love if you are single or if you are in a relationship. Some ways that you can do that are by identifying what frequency you are on and what may be blocking the path of love for you. I can explore your energy centers through a reading or energy healing session and provide you with healing and tools to help you shift your energy.
Start By Loving Yourself
I tell my clients that the best way to tune into the frequency of love is to start with yourself! That’s right self-love. Speak love to yourself, consume things that are of a loving nature. This includes music, movies, conversations, books, even foods. Taking self-love and self-care to the next level and romancing yourself can help you tune into the energy of love.
2020 is all about aligning with the energy of love. Don’t get it twisted and think that means that everything is rainbows and glitter. There will still be storms, you will still be able to express all of your emotions but you will absolutely move differently when you do so from a place of love.
Are you ready to meet you with a full tank of Love in your system?